Show Me Your Plan And I’ll Tell You Your Future

by Karen · 11 comments

in Career,Goals,Planning,Self Improvement

It’s that time again. Snow is on the ground, the year is almost over and a new one is almost upon us.

Goodbye 2009. Hello 2010!

You have a plan for the new year, right?

No, you don’t? Really?

Well, have you come to the right place then! :-)

A meaningful existence doesn’t just happen by accident you know, you have to plan. As the old saying goes, “If you don’t know where you are going, then any road will take you there.”

You want to make your own path in life and not be at the mercy of someone else’s plan, right?

Planning your future takes TICTime, Introspection and Commitment. Oh, and you’ll need to take Action, too. So, I guess it’s takes TICA.

Time

It takes a lot of time to actually sit down and document your future. It should be done when you are in a positive mental state and are relaxed. I suggest taking either a few days (at a minimum) and set aside this time for yourself. Your future deserves a few days, doesn’t it? If you have more time to devote to planning your upcoming year, then more power to you. Devoting a half-hour on a Saturday morning won’t cut it though. You need time, particularly if this is your first time writing a plan, to sit and think about what you want for your future. Get everything you need for the tasks, paper, pens, laptop, calendar, your journal, coffee, etc.

What do you want for yourself?

I suggest coming up with 3-5 items in several categories, such as Physical, Financial, Family, Spiritual, Social and Career.

On a sheet of paper, write down  the category name. Underneath this category, list 3-5 items that you either want to have or accomplish. I suggest having a broad sentence for this high-level goal at first. You will flesh out this goal later. Continue on separate pieces of paper for each of your goals, for each category. So you’ll end up with 3-5 goals on the Physical sheet, 3-5 goals on the Financial sheet, etc.

Some of the goals should be short-term (6 months), mid-term (1-2 years) and long-term (2+ years). If you already have a plan from last year, you can transfer whatever goals that were not accomplished to your new plan. You won’t achieve everything you’ve written down in the next year so some of your goals should continue into the future.

Next, on a separate piece of paper, write one of your goals at the top of the sheet. Underneath this goal, write down all the tasks that you have to do to accomplish the goal.

Brainstorm your goal. Remember they need to be SMART (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic and Time-Bound). Having some vague goal for your future that you can’t measure or achieve by the end of next year is not good enough.

Try to think backwards in time and that you have already accomplished the goal. What steps did you take to complete it? What was involved? Write those steps down.

Once you see all the tasks involved in the goal, you will have a better understanding of what you need to do and when to accomplish the goal. When you have the goal mapped out and it’s clear to you, transfer the time-bound tasks to your scheduling system.

Continue with the remaining categories and goals until you become excited about your future and can’t wait to get started!

Introspection

Having to objectively review what went well and what didn’t go so well in your life and what you are going to do about it, takes introspection. Inwardly reflecting on your life takes a lot of courage, too. You have to have some idea of what you want to accomplish or have in your future.

What have you always wanted to do with your life? Think back when you were a child and what you hoped for your future. Okay, maybe you thought you would grow up to be a rockstar when you grew up. It didn’t happen, but you can certainly learn a musical instrument in the upcoming year. Or you can take singing lessons if that’s something you’ve always wanted to do.

These goals should also stretch you. Don’t write down the easy stuff. Write down a goal that will challenge you and make a difference in your life.

Instead of writing down that you want to earn $500 more per month in the new year, write down that you will earn $10 000 more each month in 2010. Then write down all the tasks that you will need to make that much more money. What would you have to do to earn that much more? You can also subdivide your goals, if it makes it more achievable and measurable for you.

Commitment

You have devoted time to the task of planning your upcoming year. You have reflected upon your desires and know what you want. Now it’s time for Commitment.

Do you have the commitment to follow your plan? Do you believe in what you have written down?

Without Commitment to your goals, it’s not going to happen. If you don’t have faith and belief in yourself to accomplish the goals, your Commitment to achieving them will waver. You’ve spent time thinking of what you want for your future, do not let a lack of commitment let you down. You deserve better! Pledge to yourself that you will follow your plan to the best of your ability.

Action

You must be taking action on your goals. If not daily, then at a minimum weekly. Without Commitment and taking Action on your goals, they won’t happen. I suggest you use whatever scheduling method that works for you, whether it’s Outlook’s Calender, Google Calendar, setting up text alerts, paper and pen, etc.

Write down your goals on your calendar and track your progress. We all know that if you write something down and schedule it, the likelihood of it happening increases dramatically.

You won’t remember to do things, so write them down.

If checklists work for you, then use checklists to track your actions against your goals.

Look at your goal list and calendar daily. It will motivate you to see what you have accomplished and what you have planned for your future. You wrote those goals, so they must mean something to you, something that you want to have or accomplish in your life.

Once you have your plan and are taking action and are committed to achieving what you have written down, don’t give up. If you’ve spent the necessary time involved, the introspection to determine what you want in your future, and the commitment to achieve the goals, believe in the plan. It will happen.

Maybe you won’t achieve everything you’ve written down, but I bet you that by this time next year, you will be really surprised at what you have accomplished in your life.

No one is going to do this for you. You have to take personal responsibility for your future and planning for it is a major step to take. Keep in mind the saying, “If it’s to be, then it’s up to me.”

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{ 11 comments… read them below or add one }

1 Elwood P. Dowd December 10, 2009 at 10:41 AM

What if a meaningful life for you means riding the random variations of existence and taking life as it comes. There is, as we know, structure to chaos.

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2 Charles - Creative Lab December 10, 2009 at 3:50 PM

I agree with you both!

I think some times are best dedicated to letting go, and see what comes at you unprepared.

But there can be other hours in the day when you apply a structured plan to develop a habit you need to accomplish one or several specific goals.

I don’t think there’s really an argument here. The two aren’t incompatible!

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3 Karen December 10, 2009 at 6:13 PM

Nothing wrong with taking life as it comes. But, what if it doesn’t give you want you want? Perhaps life is giving you hardship, year after year? It’s easy to blame external forces, such as Fate for your circumstances, but at the end of the day, if your life (or plan) doesn’t work, there is no one else to blame.

Hmm, can you expand on your viewpoint?

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4 Elwood P. Dowd December 10, 2009 at 10:49 PM

Perhaps that is the key: to avoid laying blame.

Life is what happens to us as we plan for the future.

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5 Karen December 13, 2009 at 10:00 AM

Yes, exactly. Your plan will never be adhered to 100% of the time as you have to account for outside forces in your life.

But, if you have some structure and idea of where you are going, then you have a better chance of actually getting there.

Sort of like using a map to get from Toronto to Vancouver. It will definitely get you there, but if you don’t deviate along the way and take advantage of the stops along the way, you’ll lose the flavour of the journey. Plus, you may even decide that going all the way to Vancouver is not what you want after all, and you stop and put roots down in Winnipeg.

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6 Karen December 10, 2009 at 6:19 PM

You’re right, of course, Charles.

It doesn’t serve you well to have such a structured life that you can’t take advantage of unexpected things happening in your life. You need to be able to stop and smell the roses whenever you need to (or go with the flow) :-)

But, if you are not the master of your life and do not have some sort of plan for what you want out of life, then you can’t really complain if you’re not getting what you want, either.

Interesting.

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7 Walter December 13, 2009 at 8:47 AM

This is a sound advice you have given me. Oftentimes, I get lost with my plans for my future and I don’t know where it would lead me. Thanks for giving me this simple guidelines. :-)

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8 Karen December 13, 2009 at 10:03 AM

Thanks, Walter, glad I could help :-)

That’s okay, if you don’t know 100% of where it will lead you.

No one knows exactly where they will end up years from now.

You can have a general idea of where you are headed and where you would like to be, but as we very well know, life sometimes gets in the way of the best laid plans. You should definitely have some general direction for your life and putting it all down on paper makes it real. That way you have a good chance of getting what you want and are taking responsibility for what you do have control over.

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9 Nathan December 23, 2009 at 2:04 PM

Hi Karen, I just came across your blog via your trackback Jonny’s. Your “TICA” is definitely at the core of going where you want to in life. Another strategy that is incredibly helpful for me–among the top 3 that I use–to take my goals from vague but strong desires to actionable plans is to design a number of questions that lead incrementally toward a concrete goal.

For example, in planning for my next big project I made three topics: 1) Determining my main interests in this area 2) Determining what this would look like if I were to do something with it 3) Determining what path of study/work will get me there?. I then designed three questions within each topic that helped to answer the broader questions. By answering these smaller questions I’m able to answer the bigger, harder questions without even realizing it. I write out answers to each of the questions and read over it and so far I’ve always ended up with great results.

Great job, keep writing!

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10 Karen December 23, 2009 at 9:10 PM

That’s great advice, Nathan.

I can appreciate that questioning what your main interests are and then determining (or visualizing) what it would look like if you had accomplished that goal would create excitement for you. The excitement would lead to action and momentum to reach the goals. Having Path A, B, C…Z to get to your goals and brainstorming different routes allows for adaptability for whatever hurdle life throws at you.

Once thing that I’ve recently learned is the 5 Whys Method. This is where you ask Why? five times to each of your questions.

For example,
Why do you want to make more money? Because I want to pay my bills on time.
Why do you want to pay your bills? Because I don’t want stress in my life and it stresses me out when I don’t have enough money at the end of the month.
Why do you want less stress in your life? Because I want to be happy and not be frustrated due to stress.
Why do you want to be happy and not frustrated? Because I my family is important to me and they don’t deserve to see me frustrated all the time.
Why is your family important to you? Because it makes me feel good to provide for them and knowing that they are taken care of.

So, why do you want to earn more money? Because I want to feel good knowing that I can take care of my family and because I love them.

Drilling down will bring out true motivation for the goals.Thanks for the thoughtful comment.

Karen

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11 Aaron Darko April 20, 2010 at 4:08 PM

Again I have to say Wow!

The post was great but your last comment to Nathan was killer!

That is a fantastic way of drilling down to why you want something, I’m going to apply that to the Audi A3 S-Line I want!

Thank you so much for the insightful useful info.

P.S. If you have no motivation for your goal you need a bigger WHY

Whats your why Karen?
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